tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214164572251206738.post2320039517101753253..comments2024-02-24T21:45:39.650-05:00Comments on My Life As 3D: My heart is broken todayDDDhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07333974041672267981noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214164572251206738.post-56867407538522214222011-05-01T15:52:23.319-04:002011-05-01T15:52:23.319-04:00Burden is the worse kind of feeling. It'll be...Burden is the worse kind of feeling. It'll be tough, but remind your youngest that he is his own person. And he obviously has excellent friends. Lastly, there are so many people from my high school who flunked a grade, got worse grades than me, but who now have way cooler, more interesting jobs, and making more dough than me. So it might be tough now for him, but try to have faith that in the end it will all work out for the best.<br /><br />Dean, your sons are lucky to have parents like you and your wife. Seriously. Don't forget it. I've been trying to change my own personal attitude towards life. It really takes a strong person. Your wife sounds like such a person. It also sounds like you becoming such a person.agoodman76https://www.blogger.com/profile/10365816559302719466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214164572251206738.post-73493440094175362572011-04-29T23:59:44.951-04:002011-04-29T23:59:44.951-04:00This is heartbreaking, but look at the positives: ...This is heartbreaking, but look at the positives: most of what younger son is going through can be helped with a different school, meds and mostly loving parents. If I could talk to him I would say "I know this is hard to understand, but the fact that you worry about becoming like your brother indicates that you most likely WON'T turn out like him because you are aware, and your awareness will lead you away from, not toward, being like your brother".<br /><br />I feel like crying when I think of the pain and suffering our families suffer.Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214164572251206738.post-52789430470477835682011-04-29T20:34:14.649-04:002011-04-29T20:34:14.649-04:00I browsed into your blog today and I really feel y...I browsed into your blog today and I really feel your pain. If I can maybe offer one bit of encouragement to you and your wife: Try to enjoy your son. Laugh as often as you can with him and know that it's possible to get through anything. My 16 year old son died 9 months ago. I'm glad we laughed together. I wish I had done it more and stressed less. Keep in mind as much as you think this is your trial, it's his. You're just his support team. You sound like a good dad. kudos.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16054909902363071050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214164572251206738.post-45374240432673458412011-04-29T20:16:43.533-04:002011-04-29T20:16:43.533-04:00Can I ask you a question? My youngest son is 7 and...Can I ask you a question? My youngest son is 7 and we are just at the point of medicating his ADHD. Is there anything you wish you did differently or earlier or would change?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com